Rules of being a lady

 

1. WALK LIKE A FEATHER, DANCE LIKE THE WEATHER.

Have you ever noticed a feather falling down on the ground?!

So delicate, smooth, yet… strong.

Walk with grace, walk with confidence, walk with faith… walk into your life knowing that… YOU ARE!

Dance barefoot, dance in the muddy waters of tears, dance in this ocean called life… DANCE!

2. BE THAT SHOULDER TO CRY ON!

Who doesn’t recall how easy all the darkness would fade away when surrounded by mom’s tender arms?

Give a chance to those who never felt it, open up your heart, arms, and… BE THERE FOR THE NEEDED ONES!

3. BE REAL, BE BOLD, BE… YOU!

Be that woman who at the end of the day DOESN’T HAVE TO GIVE UP ON THAT SHINY MASK.

Be that woman who at the end of the day, DOESN’T HAVE TO CRY OUT LOUD HE MISERY OF LIVING OTHERS PEOPLE LIFE.

Be that woman who at the end of the day, EMBRACES HER REFLECTION INTO THE MIRROR.

4. SMILE ON TOP OF THOSE TEARS, KNOWING THAT LIFE WILL GIVE YOU HUNDREDS OF REASONS TO WIPE THEM OUT.

And what if you cry? And what if you lose? And what if you make mistakes?

CRY OUT LOUD, LAUGH WITH ALL YOUR POWER, DANCE ON THAT DAMN PAIN and… LET GO! LET GO and… SHINE!

5. START LOVING… YOU!

Don’t you know confidence is the new must- have?!

Grab your mirror, take a look at yourself and… START SEEING WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

You are a particle of God’s perfect creation.

What is not to love about you?!

6. GROW… LOVE.

Love yourself, love others, love nature, love who you are, what you are, what you are about to become, what you feel, what you need, what you deserve.

7. GIVE!

Only by helping others, you plant priceless seeds of pure light into your heart.

Take the time to feel the blissfulness of knowing that you could ease one’s pain.

8. READ!

Hot looking woman, lovely lady, let’s glitterize ourselves with cultural, emotional, spiritual development.

9. KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT, BUT YOUR HEART OPEN.

No, I don’t mean you should stop expressing yourself, your opinion and beliefs and start living in the shadow.

Oh, Hell, no!!!

A lady should always stand up, rise, shine.

But make it with style, compassion, and love, girl!!!

We are no better than a poor, diseased, in pain human being. We are all simply… human!

We are all simply… human!

10. STAND OUT AND KEEP UP!

You are unique, no matter what!

You don’t need to look, speak, dress or behave like the ones around you.

Stand up, and show to this world that you can rock it!!! ALLOW YOURSELF TO SHINE!

ALLOW YOURSELF TO SHINE!

Once you do it, keep up sprinkling every day glitters of confidence, self- love and respect, ’till you turn yourself into a “disco ball”- literally speaking!!!

Little sparkle killed no one! Or did?!??

Or did?!??

11. KEEP THAT OPEN MINDED HIGH CLASS!

What doesn’t call for elegance if not a lady who can respect others different opinion without insulting, shouting, judging, while still holding on to her awesome point of view?!

12. BLINK LIKE IN YOUR LAZIEST DAY EVER!

There is nothing classy about those eyelashes moving all around, up and down like in a marathon race kind of style.

Take it easy, girl! 😉

13. BREATHE!

This moment is yours, life is yours, so… Breathe into it!

The key to success is only in your possession, so, why freak out?

Take it easy while working hard on it!!!

14. BE a LADY, not the TRAMP!

Be sure to spread around you a subtle, divine fragrance of elegance, discretion, grace!

15. KNOW YOUR FEARS, RELEASE THOSE TEARS!

Face them, embrace them, allow them to create a better version of this great human being which you are.

Boogie man comes only if we allow it, so, why not open the doors wide for… Tinkerbell to follow you?!

She would love to bring in some light and create a cozy home out of that darkness.

16. DON’T RUN AWAY FROM HOTNESS!

ELEGANCE IS SEXY, AS LONG AS SEXY IS ELEGANCE!

17. KEEP YOUR STANDARDS HIGH, AND YOUR MORALS EVEN HIGHER!

Definitely, you know what you expect from yourself, others, life.

Don’t settle down for a so- so version of you!

Invest in what you were, are, and want to become!

Invest, create, fight!

Life is not always easy, people and situations are not always fair.

They might make you suffer, try to break you down, but, my lovely, never give up on your priceless dignity!!!

 

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Brainify your spirit, simplify your choices, glitterize your life!

What about you, girl?! What is your way of… being?!

Copyright 2017 Dr. Alina- Loredana Marcu. All rights reserved.

 

71 Replies to “Rules of being a lady”

    1. Thank you, my dear jossynana. What are the rules which guide you on the path of living like a lady?

      1. i will write an article about that and send it to you personally

  1. This was an absolutely wonderful read! You made me laugh but at the same time, I agree with everything you’ve said! xx
    Marina x

  2. My rule of being a lady is I don’t trust quickly to anyone. Thats my first rule. You have a great article. Very informative. Keep inspiring.

    1. Thank you, dear.
      From my point of view, a woman will be nothing else than a bunch of meat without dignity and moral principles.

  3. Hey, Alina! You made me smile! So thanks 🙂 My take away is…blink s-l-o-w-l-y. Love it! Thanks for sharing some sparkle!

  4. I love this post! I can relate to most of these, although most of the time I am no where near graceful, haha. I try to be there for anyone who needs an ear to listen or a little advice. It is hard enough being a woman in this world, we all need to stick together.

    1. I couldn’t say it better: we need to stick together!
      Only in this way we can create a better, brigther world!
      Let’s hold one to each other, lady!!! We can do it!!!

  5. This was a great read. Very funny but also very true, you make some good points! It is hard to be a woman in our society, but us girls stick together!

    1. Stick together, rise and shine!!!
      We are beautiful human beings, no matter how many tears are hidden under that gorgeous smile.
      As long as we have each other, nothing is hard enough!

  6. I love these uplifting rules. But the one that really, really made me smile: Don’t run away from hotness.

    It’s true! Sometimes ladies are so ashamed of their beauty, when in this culture I think they shouldn’t be. It’s all part of female empowerment.

    ANYWAY great read! <3

    xoxo,
    Krista
    http://reroutelifestyle.com

    1. Dear Krista, definitely we should never hide our beauty. We are beautiful on the outside, but our inner beauty is the one which should shine more than anything.
      As I said, hotness can be classy as long as we know how to keep our feminine side on tracks of elegance, style, subtility.
      Let’s rock this world, lady!
      Bless you!

  7. My life, my rule. I don’t let anyone tells me what to do, its my life and it’s my rules only. This is the reason why we left a high paying job, to have freedom.

    1. Tottaly agree with you, dear Crisly.
      There is a reason why it is called our life. We own it, and we are the only one entitled to make it as we want.
      Love, laugh, cry, enjoy… live as we feel like!!!

    1. Never settle, keep growing up, shining, loving, living!
      Life is about learning everyday who you are and worship this!
      Life is about us!

    1. My dear Sophia, we should never stop holding our heads up high.
      Humpback is not for us! Shine bright though, it is!!!
      I send you hugs, positivity, and blessings!

  8. Absolutely love this. You have mentioned everything that a lady should have. Women are the best in everything and stronger than men. Respect. Loved reading it and will show it to my sister and mom as well. 🙂

    1. It is so nice hearing this from you… Thank you for your opinion, and honest appreciation.
      This is really uplifting and I am more than happy that you will show this to your family.
      It is important to spread grace and feminity throughout the world.
      Have a wonderful day!

    1. Definitely, dear Alicia. Every person is unique, gorgeous in his/her own way.
      I never tried to influence someone to think or behave like me. These rules are the ones which are part of my own personality, as we create our own rules.
      I would love to know what is your main rule or target when it comes to… being a lady?
      I send you hugs, kisses and love!

  9. So beautiful reading! Great tips for ladies (some of them could be good for men as well)

    1. 🙂 Thank you so much, dear Helen.
      The world is ours, men or women, young or old, and we should rule it! Let’s rock our existence!

  10. Loved your article! These tips will inspire all the ladies who come across this blogpost. Thanks for sharing with us

  11. Beautiful post Alina! Love all of the rules, especially no. 7 Give! It really is so fulfilling giving to other people and make you feel good too! X

    1. Thank you, dear Millie.
      We should all give as much as we can to others. A smile, a good word, a hug, don’t cost a thing! But it makes so much good to the ones in need.
      Share love!

  12. Beautiful post Alina! Love all of the rules, especially no.7 Give! It really is so fulfilling giving to other people and it make you feel really good too! X

    1. Dear Cheyanne, I am so glad to see that morals are the most important part of your journey!
      Being a lady is though, but as long as we keep our morals at least as high as our high heels, we can rule this life!
      Let’s make it!!!

    1. We are the worthiest gift of God!!! Being able to live as we feel, getting out of the labels and create our own destiny…. this is real life!!
      Let’s live…alive!!!

  13. This was a really great read. So uplifting.

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